My mum doesn't appreciate me.?

hun the best thing i can tell you is you and your mom need a real heart to heart talk. by yourselves with nobody else around. go somewhere quiet and then tell her that you want to discuss both your problems like adults. and if she can't do that then it seems your more grown than her. not downing your mom. tell her that you will listen to how she feels about things first and just let her talk don't interupt her. then when she is done you say how you feel and she don't need to interrupt. then you both need to respect each others feelings and come to a compromise. if this don't help then leave her be for a while and maybe she will come around. don't ever stop loving your mom. and i believe she does need to tell you she loves you. i hope my info works or helps. a love between mother and daughter should be strong. wish you the best of luck.